Friday, December 10, 2010

Erotic Vacations

Okay, so what exactly is an erotic vacation? Well, to put it bluntly, it's a sex vacation. Have you ever heard of swinging? Swinging is married couples that have sex with other people. A lot of people find this morally wrong. It all depends on your point of view.

America is very prudish when it comes to sex. There are very few public places where nudity is allowed, and prostitution is mostly illegal. There are exceptions to this of course; Florida and Nevada come to mind. In Florida there are public beaches where nudity is allowed. And in parts of Nevada, prostitution is legal.

I know that my views on nudity and sex are not the norm in America. I like nude beaches. And I hold the belief that two consenting adults should be able to choose who they have sex with. And as a woman, I get severely annoyed when a man can mow the lawn without his shirt on, but a woman would get arrested for doing the same thing.

If you care to travel to other countries, not only is prostitution legal, but they actually have resorts themed around sex. Yes, there are resorts that you can go to, where you choose the type of girl along with the type of room you want. If you are a couple, you can even choose a bisexual girl. Now that would be one hot, sizzling, vacation!

But what if you don't want to travel out of the United States? Well, the only place I know of in the states where prostitution is legal, is in Nevada. They have legal brothels there, but as far as I know they are only for men, not for women or for couples. Very prudish attitude indeed.

So, in the states we have swing clubs. Nope, this is not the place where you go to practice your golf swing. This is the place where you go to swap partners. A lot of people have what they call open marriages, where they will have sex with someone other than their spouse. The spouse is aware of this, as a matter of fact, they are having sex with someone else also. It is still considered a taboo subject in the states, and a lot of people who practice this do not make it public knowledge, because of that taboo. But, there are entire clubs and organizations built around this concept. These used to be underground, backdoor, types of places. But since it is becoming a more common practice, these types of events are now being held at luxurious hotels.

I don't know how Americans became such sex prudes, probably has to do with our Quaker ancestry. But even in the Bible sex was allowed, and not always between married couples. Just because you are married to someone does not mean that is the only person you can have sex with for the rest of your life, if you and your spouse both agree to this practice. The bad part about having sex with someone who is not your spouse is the cheating part.

It is my opinion that sex is not distasteful. What is distasteful to me, is the need some people have to hide sex. If it weren't for sex, none of us would be here. And no, I don't think sex should be just for procreation, how about just for fun? I also don't think sex should be seedy. How, and with whom, you choose to have sex is your own business, as long as no one is getting hurt, and if your idea of fun sex is different from mine, I am OK with that.

1 comment:

  1. Some parts in Australia have those kind of behaviors but in Property Sunshine Coast beaches It is illegal but I think there are some who do it..and not yet been caught..I think its a very tingling feeling to do it in public..lols..

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